I am a mom of one daughter who has the closet of three :-) We wash all items in cold water and lay on a drying rack, hence the wrinkles. I do most of her laundry but Dad has been known to do a load or two. No worries though, he has been well trained and knows there will be consequences if he does not follow the rules. I am not first owner (NFO) on some and will identify in the listing. We are a pet free/non smoking home. Almost all items are cross posted. Happy shopping!!!